Author: Sir Dax
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Safety when meeting someone for the first time.
Dax’s top tips for staying safe when meeting strangers.
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Beginner’s Guide to BDSM (Solo)
First things first: BDSM and kink can be dangerous. Be aware that it is very easy to get hurt, or if you go meeting up with random strangers you meet online, worse. Please do your research- that’s what this post aims to help you with. Read The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book…
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Beginner’s Guide to BDSM (couples)
This is my “Beginner’s Guide for couples getting started in BDSM.” It is geared towards D/s because that’s what most people tend to ask about, but the bulk applies to non-D/s stuff too. Work through it together, reading and watching the resources I mention, and talk to each other about what you’ve seen/learnt, how you…
