About Sir Dax

Find out more about why Sir Dax is a Dominant, why he’s not the stereotypical Dom, and what you can expect…

The approachable Dom

Sir Dax has been practising BDSM for the past 25 years. He first realised he was a natural Dom 15 years ago, and since then has been mentoring subs and littles as well as helping new subs and Doms understand more about what their roles mean.

Over that time, Sir has developed an approach which makes him both easy to talk to, and easy to serve. More recently, Sir Dax has been using his skills to train couples in the art of D/s, so that they can integrate it into their daily life however they wish. He has also developed a range of online submissive experiences, for those who want to experience the feeling of being dominated without the physical aspects; perhaps while finding a more local Dominant, or to better understand what it means to be submissive.

Dax is very approachable, and takes time to explain every aspect of both the subject and his own approach. For Dax, no question is silly, no fear unfounded, and no request too small. Whether you’re completely new, or have had some experience, good or bad, Sir Dax will put you at ease and help you achieve your submissive desires. When first speaking to him, you don’t need to call him Sir or Master, just a simple “Dax” will do; as he earns your trust you’ll probably find you automatically start using a title.

Soon you’ll be saying “Yes, Sir” without even realising it!  

What’s it like?

Sir Dax’s role as a Dominant is to help you achieve submission. 

A submissive experience can be quite exhilarating; the freedom experienced by giving yourself over completely to someone else, removing self control, is divine. If you spend your day dealing with office politics, family frustrations, or a mundane job, submission can give you a much needed period of mental calm.

The whole objective of each session is to give you, the sub, the experience you desire. Sir Dax’s sole focus is on your needs and helping you slip into “Subspace”.

Before any session, Sir Dax will discuss your needs and goals with you. Whether you want to be restrained and enjoy some light spanking, or endure something altogether more intense, Sir Dax will listen and take care of you.

During your session, you will be perfectly safe; Sir operates within your boundaries, although he delights in helping you push yourself further than you thought possible (whilst always respecting your limits). A safe word is mandatory, and Sir will not operate without one. Hard limits are agreed beforehand, and always respected.

Aftercare is always offered.

Sir Dax operates under SSC and RACK principles.



Why is Sir Dax different?

You might wonder what, if the focus is on the sub, Sir Dax gets out of being a Dom? It’s a common question, as the stereotypical Dom is seen to be misogynistic or self-centred. 

In reality, for genuine Doms, this couldn’t be further from the truth. A D/s experience is two-way, with the sub depending on the Dominant to facilitate their submission, and the Dom depending on the sub to relax and let them take over. Sir Dax enjoys helping subs old and new achieve their goals, and that is what gives Sir Dax pleasure. 

Whether it’s an individual, or a couple learning how to play responsibly, Dax lives to help other experience D/s in a safe, controlled manner that is both fulfilling and exciting. 

Sounds too good to be true? Meet Sir Dax and find out!


Contact Sir Dax

If you’d like to find out more, send Sir a message and he’ll discuss your needs further. Don’t worry, he doesn’t bite. Unless you want him to.