Pop your details into the form and let me know what you’re interested in, and I’ll get back to you. Please remember I only take male clients as part of a couple – I do not see individual male clients for online or in-person sessions.

You can also direct message me on Twitter / X @TheSirDax, or Reddit at u/Sir-Dax.

If you haven’t heard back from me in 48 hours, check your spam folder and then send me a message on Twitter or Reddit – some email services don’t like the sort of things we’ll be talking about, and block the emails!

You can also follow me on the majority of social media platform – you’ll find links to all my accounts on the Links page!

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Hi Dax,

My name is [name], I’m [age] and I’m based in [rough location or country]. I found you through [how you found me — Twitter / Threads / Instagram / Reddit / website / recommendation etc] and after [reading your site / watching your interview with Katje / doing some research] I wanted to get in touch.

A bit about my situation: I’m [single / in a relationship]. I’m interested in exploring submission and BDSM [for the first time / further than I have before], and [I’m a complete beginner / I have some experience, including: ].

I’m interested in [in-person sessions / online / Dax & Friends].

What I think I’m looking for is [a sense of the dynamic you want — e.g. structure and accountability / a chance to switch off and let someone else be in charge / exploring specific things you’re curious about]. I’m less sure about [whatever you’re uncertain about — specific activities, how far you want to go, what format would suit you]. That’s part of why I wanted to talk to someone who knows what they’re doing.

[Add anything else you think of here]

I look forward to hearing from you, also your beard is AWESOME.

[Name]