This page is a list of resources I often recommend to people. It’s worth coming back as I add new resources often.

Books

• The New Topping Book (Dossie Easton, Janet Hardy)
• The New Bottoming Book (Dossie Easton, Janet Hardy)  
• Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns (Molly Devon)
• Playing Well With Others (Lee Harrington)
• The Heart of Dominance (Anton Fulmen)
• The Dominance Playbook (Anton Fulmen)
• The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl’s Guide to Female Dominance (Lorelei Powers)
• Femdom for Nice Girls (Lucy Fairborn)
• 131 Dirty Talk Examples (Elizabeth Kramer)
• The BDSM Playbook (Elizabeth Kramer)
• The Ethical Slut (Dossie Easton, Janet Hardy)  

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YouTube Channels

• Evie Lupine
• Ms Elle X

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Websites

• Kink Academy fantastic resource for learning pretty much everything about kink (affiliate link)
• Christian Red (professional rope rigger)
• The Duchy (rope/bondage learning)

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General links of interest

• Warning stories about dating older people
• Wonderful example of what 24/7 TPE relationships can be
• Impact play “safe zones” – view the full altlife.community impact play guide here.
• A BDSM Checklist that I like (there are LOADS out there)
• How to spot gaslighting
• Articles about choking / strangling:
  • https://www.twistedwindows.com/articles/breath-control-risk-awareness
  • https://sexualalpha.com/bdsm-choking-kink/
  • http://sexwithemily.com/choking-etiquette-101/
• Lovense remote controlled toys (affiliate link)
• Bad Girl’s Bible – list of kinks and fetishes
• Wikipedia’s list of paraphilias

(Amazon links on this page are affiliate links)