This is where you’ll find various guides and articles I’ve written, plus general thoughts on BDSM, kink, relationships and more…
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How to meet a Dom or sub
One of, if not the most common questions I get asked, is “How do I find a Dom/sub?” My initial answer is always the same: You don’t. You’re not looking… Read the full article >>
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Mentors
A common word newcomers to kink may come across is “Mentor”. It’s often bandied around online spaces as something all newcomers should have, but what is it? The idea behind… Read the full article >>
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What is the BDSM community, and do I have to join it?
Short answer: It’s anyone and everyone who’s interested in BDSM, and if that’s you, then you’re already in! Long answer: If you’ve spent any time looking into BDSM online, read… Read the full article >>
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Interview with a client: Katje
Have you ever wondered what it might be like to submit to me? Or have you thought about booking my Beginner’s Session, but nerves got the better of you? Or… Read the full article >>
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Beginner’s Guide to Anal
So you want to give anal a try and see what all the fuss is about? Alright, here’s your complete guide! It’s a bit lengthy, but that’s because I’ve answered… Read the full article >>