Welcome to my world – a space where kink, trust, exploration, and empowerment come together in the world of BDSM.

I’m Dax, a Professional Dominant with six years of professional experience guiding individuals and couples through their journeys of kinky discovery, personal growth, and authentic self-expression, plus many years before that of enjoying BDSM (especially D/s) in my personal life. Six years ago, I chose to become a Professional Dominant after getting enough comments of “You should charge for that!” that I realised they weren’t just being nice and I really should do it, and I haven’t looked back.

My Approach

Everything I do is rooted in mutual trust, respect, open communication, and a commitment to creating experiences that are as safe as they are exciting. Over the years, I’ve developed a style which makes me both easy to talk to, and easy to serve. I’ve also developed a range of online submissive experiences, for those who want to experience the feeling of being dominated without the physical aspects; perhaps while finding a more local Dominant, or to better understand what it means to be submissive.

For me, BDSM is more than physical interaction; it can also be a deep, intimate connection – even emotionally and mentally – that goes beyond what you see on social media and in fiction. I believe in creating a space where you can explore your desires, limits, and fantasies with confidence, secure in the knowledge that you are supported, respected and safe. Whether you’re looking to step into the world of submission, deepen your current dynamics, or simply indulge in a one-off session, I’m here to guide you with expertise and care.

I follow a framework that honors consent, safety, and individual boundaries. Methods like SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual), PRICK (Personal Responsibility, Informed Consensual Kink)  and RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink) are foundational to my practice, ensuring every session is designed with your comfort and goals in mind.

Approachable and Supportive

If you’re new to BDSM, welcome! Helping newcomers navigate the exciting, and often overwhelming, world of kink is my specialty. I know that taking the first step into this realm can feel intimidating, and that’s why I prioritise creating a welcoming, judgment-free environment where you can learn, explore, and ask questions openly. There is so much misinformation out there, on social media, in TV, movies, fantasy, fanfic, and on private Discord servers, that it can be hard to tell what’s real and what isn’t – I’m here to help you figure out what’s right for you.

I take the time to explain every aspect of both kink and my own approach. No question is silly, no fear unfounded, and no request too small. Whether you’re completely new, or have had some experience, good or bad, I’ll put you at ease and help you achieve your submissive desires. When you first speak to me, you don’t need to call me Sir or Master, just a simple “Dax” will do; as we get used to each other, you’ll probably find you automatically start using a title anyway!

I tailor each online dynamic or in-person session to your pace, ensuring you feel secure, comfortable and respected every step of the way. You don’t need prior experience or an in-depth understanding of kink to work with me – just curiosity and a desire to embark on this journey. Together, we’ll uncover what excites you, what piques your interest, and what you don’t want, all while laying a foundation of trust and understanding.

Who I Work With

I welcome clients from all walks of life (as long as you’re 18 or over), whether you’re stepping into this space for the very first time, have dabbled in the past, are a seasoned player or have had bad past experiences (including assault or abuse). Whilst I don’t have any formal mental health training, I have had many clients who’ve been traumatised in the past, and I am used to helping people who want to start reclaiming that part of their life.

For beginners, I offer patient guidance and education to ensure your experience is both safe and empowering. For those with more experience, I provide depth and creativity to push boundaries and create memorable, transformative sessions. My specialties include D/s, impact and sensory play, breast and pussy play/torture, inspection and service, but every session is personalised to your unique interests and needs.

I’m also happy to work with people in existing relationships who are interested in trying out BDSM with their partner, and this can be done over video calls or in person.

What Sets Me Apart

I bring more than skill to the table; I bring understanding and approachability. In my approach, I emphasise the emotional and mental aspects of BDSM, recognising the vulnerability and trust it requires. My goal is to empower you to embrace your desires without judgment, helping you unlock parts of yourself you may have only dreamed of exploring.

On a personal level, I stay committed to continuous learning and professional development to provide my clients with the best possible experience. I spend any spare time I have contributing free advice, guides and tips online (including social media and Reddit) as well as a new podcast which aims to answer common questions and dispel popular myths.

What’s In It For Me?

You might wonder, if the focus is on making sure my subs have the best experience, what do I get out of being a Dom? It’s a common question, as the stereotypical Dom is seen to be abusive, narcissistic, misogynistic or otherwise purely self-centred. 

In reality, for healthy Doms (and indeed, any sort of partner), this couldn’t be further from the truth. A D/s experience is two-way, with the sub depending on the Dominant to facilitate their submission, and the Dom depending on the sub to relax and let them take over. For me, I get pleasure and satisfaction from helping my subs/clients have an enjoyable experience (however that looks for them) and yes, I’ll admit that a sub gushing about how happy they are to have found me does give me a very big smile!

Whether it’s an individual, or a couple learning how to bring kink into an established relationship, I thoroughly enjoy helping others experience D/s in a safe, controlled manner that is both fulfilling and exciting. I even created a dedicated “BDSM for Beginners” session that is intended to make sure that you never need to book another session with me (unless you want to), because you’ll learn everything you need to know

Your Journey Begins Here

I understand that taking the first step can feel daunting, but you’ll find nothing but support, understanding and a friendly manner here. Whether you’re seeking structure, catharsis, or simply an outlet to explore your fantasies, you’re in the right place.

If you’re ready to begin, I invite you to get in touch; don’t worry if you don’t know what to say, get in touch and I’ll take it from there. You’ll be saying “Yes, Sir!” before you know it!