This is where you’ll find various guides and articles I’ve written, plus general thoughts on BDSM, kink, relationships and more…
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Dom/Sub vs. Top/Bottom: What’s the Difference?
If you’re new to the kink world, you may have across terms like Dominant, submissive, Top, and bottom, often used in the same breath, sometimes interchangeably, but you may not… Read the full article >>
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What is FinDom?
FinDom This post is all about that perennial favourite, Financial Domination. This is a mix of my opinions and accepted practice within the lifestyle/community, and as with everything in BDSM… Read the full article >>
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Is D/s like a manager/employee dynamic?
A lot of people seem to think that being a Dom is similar to being a manager, and whilst they may look like similar roles on the surface, I don’t… Read the full article >>
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How to meet a Dom or sub
One of, if not the most common questions I get asked, is “How do I find a Dom/sub?” My initial answer is always the same: You don’t. You’re not looking… Read the full article >>
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Mentors
A common word newcomers to kink may come across is “Mentor”. It’s often bandied around online spaces as something all newcomers should have, but what is it? The idea behind… Read the full article >>