Couples
Looking to introduce kink into your existing relationship?
Let’s Add Some Spice to Your Relationship
So, you’re curious about introducing BDSM to your relationship? Whether you’re just dipping your toes into the world of kink or looking to take things to the next level, I’m here to help you and your partner explore it safely, confidently, and together.
Why Try BDSM?
BDSM isn’t just about whips and chains (though those can be fun, too!). It’s about trust, communication, and discovering new ways to connect with your partner. Here’s what BDSM can do for your relationship:
- Build trust: Learning each other’s boundaries and respecting them is at the heart of BDSM.
- Strengthen intimacy: Sharing vulnerable moments and intimate fantasies can bring you closer than ever.
- Discover what excites you: You might find parts of yourself or your partner you didn’t even know were there.
BDSM is all about communication, connection – and having some fun along the way, of course!
How I Can Help
Every couple is different, and there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to kink. That’s where I come in. I’ll help you figure out what works for both of you, at your own pace, without pressure or judgment. Here’s what I can offer:
1. Guidance That Fits You
We’ll start where you are; whether that’s learning the basics or fine-tuning an existing dynamic. I’ll help you figure out what excites you both, what feels right, and how to communicate with each other about it.
2. Clear, Simple Advice
I’ll break things down into easy-to-understand steps. From setting boundaries and using safewords to exploring specific kinks, you’ll get the info you need without feeling overwhelmed.
3. Practical Tips and Techniques
Curious about trying new things? I can walk you through everything, from setting the mood to choosing tools and toys. You’ll learn how to create safe, satisfying experiences that work for both of you.
4. A Safe Space to Explore
Nervous about diving in? That’s totally normal. I’ll help you explore in a way that feels exciting but also secure, so you can focus on having fun.
Communication Is Key
The secret to great BDSM? Talking to each other. A lot. I’ll help you:
- Figure out what you’re both comfortable with.
- Set up safety measures (like safewords and aftercare).
- Build a dynamic that’s rooted in mutual respect.
Who I Work With
Whether you’re brand-new to kink or have some experience, I can help.
- For beginners: We’ll take it slow and easy, making sure you feel confident as you learn.
- For experienced couples: Let’s add new layers to your connection and try out fresh ideas.
Ready to Explore Together?
BDSM can bring so much excitement and depth to your relationship. It’s about creating something meaningful and fun for both of you—and I’d love to help you get there.
Options / Prices
I can provide online or in-person options.
Online: Most couples prefer online mentoring, where we have video or text chats, and I’ll advise you and answer any questions you have, plus it doesn’t matter where in the world you are!
Online mentoring: £50 per hour
In-person: If you want me to demonstrate things in-person, that’s possible too, but really it’s only suitable if you live in England. If you just want to sit down somewhere and have a chat, that’s classed as “mentoring”, but if you want me to demonstrate or come to a dungeon with you, that’s the same price as a regular session.
In person mentoring: £50 per hour (plus travel expenses)
In person with play/demonstrations: £150 per hour (min 2 hours, max six hours, plus travel expenses)
Interested?
Get in touch with me and we’ll go from there.
