Sessions & Online Experience

Looking for your first experience at the hands of a Dominant, but want to start slow? Or perhaps you’ve got a taste for the rough side and want more? Sir Dax can offer personal sessions in your home, a hotel, or in a convenient playroom/dungeon. Although based in Lincolnshire, Dax can travel if necessary.

Alternatively, become an online submissive for 24/7 fun!

 

In-person BDSM Sessions

Overview:

For those wanting the traditional play/fetish experience, Sir Dax offers the choice of sessions in a play room or hotel (for those who are intimidated by the thought of a dungeon). 

If you already know what sort of session you would like, Sir Dax will work up a personalised session plan with you, and adjust it as necessary to meet your needs; alternatively, let Sir Dax suggest some of his personal favourite activities for you both to enjoy.

 

If you’re a beginner, then Sir Dax’s “Beginning BDSM” session is for you!

Beginning BDSM Session Outline:

This session is specifically designed for those who have no experience of BDSM, or perhaps have played a bit at home and are now ready to get some real experience.

Prior to your session, Sir Dax will contact you to go over the basics and get to know you. Sir Dax is available for non-play “Introduction” meetings if you wish; safety is very important and Sir will happily put your mind at ease.

Each Beginning BDSM session starts with a chat about what will happen, any concerns, your safeword, your soft/hard limits and anything else relevant. 

When you are ready, the session will begin. At ANY time, you may use your safeword to stop immediately. Sir Dax will sit down with you and check you’re ok, and the session will be adjusted if you want. The session has a rough outline (an example of which can be found here), and will include plenty of explanation about the different toys, equipment and techniques being used. You’ll be taught about safety, inluding how to be spanked correctly, when to use lube (and what sort), and you’ll be able to show someone else how to do that thing you like.

Afterwards, there will be time for aftercare, and you and Sir Dax can discuss the session, perhaps try a few things again, and generally unwind. This is an ideal opportunity to ask questions about joining your local scene, finding events, how to find other people to play with – anything you like. 

The session has been designed to last approximately two hours, however it can go on for as long as you need to feel that you’ve got everything you need out of it. Sir Dax wants you to leave his care fully prepared for the real world of BDSM, and there’s no rush. The session has a fixed price (£299 + expenses), no matter how long it lasts.

In addition, you’ll leave the session with your very own Sir Dax stainless steel anal plug, a 15% discount for Dax’s online sex shop Deviance by Dax, and unlimited email or social media support afterwards. 

 Download the sample session guide here

*Expenses covers Dax’s travel costs and venue hire, such as dungeon hire, hotel room for the session etc. Incalls at your home will not incur venue hire.

 

£299.00 + expenses

Online Submissive Experience

Overview:

If play isn’t for you, or you want to serve Sir Dax between sessions or from afar, you can now join Sir Dax’s Patreon. Depending on the level you choose, you can enjoy anything from a basic experience to a fully-tailored submissive schedule hand-crafted by Sir Dax to fit your life.

“Enroll” buttons will take you to Sir Dax’s Patreon page where you can sign up.

 

Submissive experience

 

In addition to the basic benefits,  this tier gives access to a beginner’s Submissive schedule. You’ll receive:

  • a timetable of suggested daily tasks, 
  • roleplay scenarios to try alone or with a partner,
  • bi-weekly video chats to discuss progress, 
  • Social Media messaging to keep Sir informed.
  • Additional bonus messaging sessions if you have performed well 😉

£50per month

Slave experience

In addition to the Play Slave and Submissive benefits, this tier gives access to a tailored Submissive schedule and allows you to serve Sir online at his pleasure. You’ll receive:

  • a personalised timetable of daily tasks created with your life in mind,
  • exclusive content,
  • an online diary for you to keep Sir Dax up to date with your life, with feedback and comments from Sir Dax himself,
  • weekly video chats
  • and more!

£100 per month 

How does online submission work?

Much like person-to-person sessions, online requires a commitment from you just as it does from Sir Dax. This is why Sir charges for online Dom services; he puts real time and effort into making sure it works for you, unlike most “Doms” online who just want naked photos and sexting in between dinner with their family and their job.

Sir Dax will provide you with daily tasks to perform, just as he would in person. This will require use of a smart phone to send photos and video to prove the tasks have been done; don’t be scared, though, as Sir will work with you to make sure you don’t feel uncomfortable. Sir will also message you to reassure you and encourage you; again, just as he would in person. Tasks and training will vary depending on the level of submission you have chosen.

Sir Dax will always take your real life into account. You’ll never be asked to do anything that would jeopardise your job, family or safety; discretion is assured.

 

Contact Sir Dax

If you’d like to find out more, send Sir a message and he’ll discuss your needs further. Don’t worry, he doesn’t bite. Unless you want him to.